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Most of the time I think I’m normal, and other people are the weirdos. However when I list the things we do that are not mainstream, I realize that no, I’m pretty much the freak. Everything from co-sleeping, to parenting choices, to my own passions, to my politics, to the way we eat–all of it is what I would consider counter culture. On the one hand, I’m happy to not be a jump-off-the-bridge-because-you-said-so kinda of a girl. On the other hand, it does get a little exhausting constantly fielding questions about “why” we do what we do. I should just give them my card and they can come here and read all about it.

For the most part, my decisions about who I am and what kind of a mom I want to be, were not necessarily planned out ahead of time. They evolved organically, out of circumstance, and seemed to me to be the natural choice in any situation. I don’t regret any of it, and I love that my life is interesting to others (because it seems pretty normal and boring, at times, to me!). Clearly I don’t mind talking about myself, right?

The biggest thing for me is that I hope everyone realizes that just because I might be different from you, or rather, if you are different from me, I do not judge people for their life choices. I might have an opinion, but it’s just my opinion, and what we are doing as a family is what is best FOR US. I have friends of all faiths, personalities, styles, life choices, etc. What we have in common is that we like each others’ heart, and that is ultimately what matters. We don’t all have to pick the same things out when we go to the grocery store or at the clothing store (or at the hair salon!) to be friends, and I’m ok if you think what I do is “weird”. I’m strong enough in my own self to not worry about that, and I hope that you are as well.

I posted about one of my passions at Chicago Moms Blog this week, and about our diet choices at Stop Looking At Me. I hope you’ll come visit!

May 2, 2008 | Filed Under Chicago Moms Blog, Myself and I, NWI Parent | 7 Comments

As Promised

In my Mean Girls post I promised I’d follow that rant with some inspiration, hilarity and baby pictures. So, as promised:

Inspiration–

Everything I write about is inspired (or instigated) by something, and most of the time my inspiration is my kids. Come read my other blog where I wrote this week about Mr Fussy (see below).

Hilarity–

The other day my 3yo was out for a walk and suddenly said, “I think I need to get back home. I’m getting fussy.“ I really wish that I had the wherewithall to warn people PRIOR to getting fussy, instead of them just figuring it out after I glare at them and chuck something at their head.

Last but not least, baby pictures (my niece Capri)–

Go ahead and say it. Nom nom nom…

April 25, 2008 | Filed Under NWI Parent, Randomness | 12 Comments

Brotherhood

I’m writing about the bruthas over at Stop Looking At Me today. Come visit and share your stories!

April 18, 2008 | Filed Under Family, NWI Parent | 1 Comment

Strawberry Milk Forever

So this week was rough. I wrote about it over here. Ready for a nice weekend and a fresh start next week!

April 11, 2008 | Filed Under Autism, NWI Parent | 3 Comments

Girl About Town

Come hang out with me at my other haunts today…

In Defense of the Veggie Burger and Autism:The Musical

I’m nothing if not diverse!

March 27, 2008 | Filed Under Autism, Food, NWI Parent, Vegan | 1 Comment

No Sleep For the Weary

**I think this was the last time he actually slept. It was 2 years ago

So I’ve been feeling surly. And foggy. And there’s a reason. Come read and commiserate.

March 20, 2008 | Filed Under Autism, NWI Parent | Leave a Comment

Fly, Baby, Fly

I’m writing about my sweet little blackbird over at Stop Looking At Me today. He actually said, “Stop looking at me” a few days ago, so I’m thinking the blog is apropos something fierce, lately…

March 5, 2008 | Filed Under Autism, Family, NWI Parent | Leave a Comment

A Whole New World, With Peanut Butter On Top

I’m blogging about getting kids to eat healthy over at my other stomping ground today. Come visit!

February 28, 2008 | Filed Under Health, NWI Parent | Leave a Comment

Something’s Fishy

I’m at my other blog talking about why I love these strawberry fish oils so much. Come visit me, leave me a comment–or better yet, leave your own health tips!

February 20, 2008 | Filed Under Autism, Health, NWI Parent | Leave a Comment