Unable are the loved to die. For love is immortality. ~Emily Dickinson
This is Beth from I Should Be Folding Laundry. I wanted to let you all know that Arianne and Jacob went in for their much anticipated 18 week ultrasound this morning and it is there they learned their sweet little baby had died.
As many of you may know, I lost my twins boys at 19 weeks of pregnancy, I know what her heart is feeling like right now. I know that she wants nothing more than to continue feeling her baby move inside her belly, I know that she wants to feel morning sickness overcome her today, tomorrow and the next and I know that she thinks she will not survive these next few days.
But she will. She needs you, your love, your support and prayers to surround her and love her. I know that through your LOVE and much time that soon they’ll find a light through their darkness.
Arianne and family, we love you all so much. May you feel the arms of so many wrapped around you today and always.
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I’m so sorry, Arianne. My heart is in a million pieces for you.
Love to you and Jacob. I wish I could be there with you.
Sarah Viola´s last blog ..A Slow Start
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Hugs to you~so sorry. My heart aches for you and your family.
Sara Broers´s last blog ..Who’s your favorite Disney character?
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I love you so much, Arianne. I wish we could be there right now, with our arms around you. Just know that we’re lifting you with all of our love and prayers.
Erin´s last blog ..Global Domination
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Oh Arianne, I am so extremely sorry for this terrible loss. My prayers are with you and your sweet family. I know that the next while is going to be oh so difficult, lean on those of us who have walked this terrible path and know that you are not alone.
Love to you.
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Arianne I love you and am here. Anything and everything, my all to you.
I am so sorry.
Steph
Adventures In Babywearing´s last blog ..Calling all angels
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Oh Arianne, oh Jacob, I am so sorry. I know that words don’t work right now, that they don’t heal anything and they don’t bring that baby back and they don’t stop the hurt and if they could I would give you every last one of mine. I am so heartbroken for you and please know I am praying over you, all of you, and loving you so much. So much.
Sara Joy´s last blog ..Piece of Cake
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Love you, Ari. Words can’t express my sorrow . . .
Tara @ Deal Seeking Mom´s last blog ..Win-It Wednesday: The $5 Dinner Mom Cookbook (7 Winners!)
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Praying, praying, praying for God’s love to surround you.
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Arianne, I’m so sorry to hear that. My heart dropped when I heard this news. I am so so sorry to you and your family for your loss. Please know that I am here if you need anything. xoxo
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I’m so sorry, Arianne! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Arianne – I’m so sorry to hear this. My prayers and thoughts are with you…
Jodi
Jodi – Mom’s Favorite Stuff´s last blog ..Proactiv: Beyond the 3-Step System
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I am so sorry. I have heard that news. I know how it breaks you. Love and warmth and strength to you.
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Arianne and Jacob, I don’t have the words to express my sorrow for your loss, but wanted you to know that I’m sending prayers and love your way.
Wendy´s last blog ..WW – Milestones
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Love you so much. Praying, praying, praying.
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Praying so hard for peace and for comfort.
May you feel warm arms around you holding you tight.
You are never alone.
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I don’t know you, but I know how it feels to go in for a check up and find out you’ve lost a baby.
Wishing you strength,
Ann
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Sending loving prayers.
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O friend, I am so sorry. May God grant you a peace that surpasses understanding.
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Oh how my heart is breaking for you. I am so, so sorry. Praying for you and your family.
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So sorry, Arianne. Many hugs and prayers for you guys.
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Arianne, thinking and praying for you and sending hugs from Hawaii.
xoxo,
Sarah
Sarah´s last blog ..Queen for a Day
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My thoughts and love are with you. Truly.
Erin´s last blog ..Spankers Can #Suckit
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I am thinking of and praying for you and Jacob. May God wrap his loving arms around you during this difficult time. ((Hugs))
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I am so very, very sorry.
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Sorrowing with you. Hugs and peace.
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Oh Ari, I’m so sorry. I wish I could hug you right now. I’ll be praying for you, Jacob and your boys.
mamikaze´s last blog ..One less year {w}
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Dear Arianne, Jacob and family, I am so very sorry for your horrible loss. Please know that my prayers are with you. Love, Mimi Rhonda Hugs…
Rhonda (mimi)´s last blog ..Steph’s early birthday celebration
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I am so sorry, prayers and hugs to you!
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i am so sorry… so so very sorry. I lost a baby at 16 weeks and I can only say that I understand your pain and will pray for you.
you are LOVED!
Britt
4 Little Men and Girly Twins´s last blog ..Our very Merry Christmas
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I am so, so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Oh my love.
I am so sorry.
What I wouldn’t give to take even a moment of your pain. I know we all feel that way.
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I am praying for you all during this dark time. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. I’m so terribly sorry.
SimplyForties´s last blog ..Reflections of a Match.com Dabbler
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Arianne, I love you so much and I have no words to make it better. I know how much you loved this sweet miracle. I think we all wish we were there right next to you to hug and love on the wonderful woman you are.
xoxo from indianna
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Oh that just breaks my heart. I don’t understand why some have to experience so much loss when others do not. I will offer many, many prayers for your family. I’m so sorry for your loss.
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I’m so terribly sorry.
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I am so very very sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain that you are feeling right now. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family.
hyperactive lu´s last blog ..The Paci Fairy
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I am so very, very sorry for the loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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Oh I am so sorry. Your family is in my prayers. So sorry Arianne.
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I was never a crier until I lost my pregnancy. I am now a crier, and I am crying for you guys right now. I am so sad for you. I’ll be thinking of you Arianne.
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I am so sorry Arianne… shedding tears and saying prayers for you.
Corinne´s last blog ..Elbow deep, five stories high
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Arianne,
You, Jacob and the boys are loved more than you’ll ever know. I’m so very sorry. Sending love and strength and peace that surpasses understanding.
xo,
Ash
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i am so sorry for your loss. i lost a baby boy at 17 weeks almost 7 years ago and i still think of that little baby nearly everyday. i know the pain and heartache you are going through now but i wanted to say that in time the pain goes away and your memory of the time you had together never does. time will heal your heart and you will find your way through your grief.
just wanted you to know that someone else has been there too and you will feel better someday.
((((hugs to you))))
stephanie
Mama23Bears´s last blog ..a mckgiveaway worth blogging for
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no words. no words.
Alli´s last blog ..Remembering 2009 with a happy heart…
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My heart is aching for you and your family. I’m so sorry for your loss. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
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I’m so sorry. You and your husband are in my thoughts tonight. (((Hugs)))
Nanette´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday – My New Beauty
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My heart breaks for your loss. So many thoughts are with you and your boys right now.
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I’m so sorry, sweetie. My prayers are with you and your family.
Amy – Mom Spark & Mom Made That!´s last blog ..Requests for Love
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My heart is just broken for you. I am here for you- whatever you need and whenever you need me. I love you so much!
Amy´s last blog ..Amy’s Notebook 01.06.10
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(((Arianne))) much love to you & your family during this time.
I am so sorry.
xo
Domestic Extraordinaire´s last blog ..Her Acoustic Christmas
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Oh my…I can’t stand hearing these things. I lost my boy at 26 wks….and yes…the though of going on sucks AND today still..two years later….I am forever changed.
Hugs and love….
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Oh I am so sorry.
It hurts so badly.
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Oh, no. I’m so sorry. Sending love your way.
Stimey´s last blog ..They’re Even Squirmier Than I Imagined
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I’m so sorry. I wish there were something better to say than that…
You and your family are in my thoughts.
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I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Jennifer (Conversion Diary)´s last blog ..Encouragement for parents in the trenches?
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Oh Arianne, my sincere condolences. Sending you lots of love and white light right now.
mom-101´s last blog ..Hope and Sugar Cones
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There really are not words. Praying for His comfort, His peace and His love to wrap you up and hold you tightly.
Yes, it’s okay to get made at Him, yell and scream and pound your fists. Because there is so much that can’t be understood. He’ll love you anyway, just like all of us out here in cyber space.
HisFireFly´s last blog ..Me? Worry?
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Arianne, I am so sorry. I know the pain, I lost a baby boy at 17 weeks. Your baby girl was real. I’m sorry all of your dreams for her won’t be coming true. I wish you strength in getting through the next few weeks.
kimberly/tippytoes´s last blog ..Tech Headache
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Ari, I am so so so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.
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Words fail me. I cannot even express my sorrow over your pain. I, too, have been there…you will get through it, we will be here. Anything you need.
Amanda @ High Impact Mom´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday: Holiday Edition
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I’m very sorry.
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Arianne, I am so sorry for this profound loss. I’m praying for you and your family as you walk through this.
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Oh sweetie. I am so sorry. I never experienced it myself, but my BF did twice as well as several other close friends. And Declan came at 32 weeks so that was pretty painful too. But nothing like losing your own child, I know. I wish I could make it better for you. Just know we are all thinking of you guys.
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Ari ~ Sending you love and prayers.
<3
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Arianne, I am so, so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family.
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Praying for you, dear.
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I’m so so sorry Arianne. You know I love you so much and hate that your heart is in pieces right now. May God hold you tight and help you heal.
All my love,
Lori
Lori (A Cowboy’s Wife)´s last blog ..Handmade Chihuahua Spurs for LB
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So unfair, so unfair. Sending you healing and peaceful thoughts -
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Ari… My heart is breaking for you! You have a whole community out here who loves you. Please know our hearts and prayers go out to you.
{{hugs and lots of love}}
jyl
Jyl Johnson Pattee´s last blog ..Do You Know a Little Girl Who Looks Like Little Debbie? She Could Win $5,000!
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Oh dear Lord
Arianne, I’m praying for you and your sweet family. I just cannot imagine. I’m so, so sorry.
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Praying so much for you! May God give you comfort.
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I’m so sorry, Arianne. I pray that God will bring you comfort and healing in the days and weeks ahead.
Tara @ Feels Like Home´s last blog ..I Love These Lousy Pictures
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I am so sorry for your loss. I lost a baby at 17 weeks so I understand the pain you are experiencing. My thoughts are with you.
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Much love, babe. So much love XOXO
Mrs. Flinger´s last blog ..Haggard.
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My heart breaks for you. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Sending you love and light.
Aunt Becky´s last blog ..We’re Getting The BAND Back Together. The DISCO Band.
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My heart breaks for you. There are no words, but there are prayers. Rest assured that many are being said for you and your family.
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I’m so, so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers ~
Heather´s last blog ..$1/3 American Greetings Cards
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Oh Arianne, words cannot really express how terribly sorry I am to hear this news. Sending you and your family much love.
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Oh, honey, I’m so very, very sorry. Holding you and your family in my heart and thoughts today.
Jessica Rosenberg (aka kikarose)´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday: Hair yesterday, gone today.
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I am so very sorry for your loss, and will keep you in my prayers.
Diane´s last blog ..blog changes
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What a heartbreaking thing, so sorry sweet girl. Prayers to you and your family during this difficult time. I only wish you could feel the love from everyone thinking of you and yours right now.
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I’m so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Nancy´s last blog ..True Confession Tuesday
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I always fear that words are just words at moments like this. My heart is heavy for you and the loss of your sweet baby. I will pray that God pours out a balm on your soul.
So very, very sorry.
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Damn it. I am so, so sorry to hear this.
Miss Britt´s last blog ..Perfection. Which is funny, because I have no ending.
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I am so sorry. Speachless-not sure what to say! Xoxoxo
Elizabeth´s last blog ..10 things I predict for 2010
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Arianne -
We’re so sorry! Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Rick @ Tiny Prints´s last blog ..Tiny Pleasures: A New Planner
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There simply aren’t any words. I lost a son to SIDS so I know there is absolutely nothing that can be said to make the pain better. Your family will be in my prayers.
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Lifting you up in prayer for peace and comfort. I’m sorry for your loss. Much love to you.
Aimee´s last blog ..God-Sized Goal #3
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Dear Arianne,
I am so sorry. I also lost a child at 22 weeks and in this sad “sisterhood” that we find ourselves, my heart joins yours. Sending prayers to you and your family.
Mercedes
Mercedes Levy´s last blog ..Walgreens: Aquafina Water Deal
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So sad to hear of your loss. Prayers for you during this difficult time.
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Arianne, I am so sorry. I will be praying for God to give you and your family peace and understanding.
Stephanie´s last blog ..Walmart Deals 1/5/2010
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I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Arianne & Jacob, I am so so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks and cries for you. Please know you’re in my thoughts.
Dawn´s last blog ..My Resolution for 2010
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Oh Arianne, I happened to stop by here today and came upon this post. I am so so so very sorry and just want you to know I am thinking of you. Tight tight hugs. xo
mamajoss´s last blog ..8 Years Ago Today…
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My deepest sympathies and much prayer for you xo
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Arianne, I am so so sorry. Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Katja of Skimbaco´s last blog ..Living Life to the Fullest – Making Memories
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Praying and crying for you Ari. So sorry. I’ve been there and it hurts so much {hugs}.
melissa @ the inspired room´s last blog ..No More Winter Blues: 20 Winter Home Tips
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I’m so deeply sorry. Oh how I hurt for you. So much. If there’s anything, anything at all I can do, let me know. Oh, God…
Nell
Casual Friday Every Day´s last blog ..You Capture: Year In Review
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Oh, Arianne…my heart hurts for you. Please know I’m sending many hugs and prayers your way.
Sky´s last blog ..Wordfull Wednesday
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I’m so very, very, very sorry, Arianne. So very sorry. Thinking of you. xoxoxo
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Oh, babe. I’m so very sorry. Sending you so much love from here.
Kerri Anne´s last blog ..“Sixteen thirty-two. What is that? A year?”
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Big hugs to you and your family and you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Stephanie´s last blog ..wordless wednesday – meeting new relatives
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Arianne –
You are in my prayers, sweetie. I am so sorry and sad to hear this and will keep praying that God will show his goodness and peace to you right now.
Mary´s last blog ..MaryMassey: @tothink you are in my prayers, sweetie. http://bit.ly/8UTHWQ
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It’s not fair that I can’t be with you. But I know that God made it that way for a reason. I love you, and I hope that you will take all this love and support from your community in and let it heal you piece by piece.
Carrington´s last blog ..Christmas pictures!
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Hi Ari: I am so sorry to read this news. Thinking of you. Lots of love.
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Thinking of you and your family.
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I’ll call you later, sis. Hang in there.
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I’m so sorry, Arianne. I wish you had gotten more time with your son. I’m praying that your hurt can be quieted just a little in the next few days. You are amazing and wonderful, and.. well… I just can’t imagine. I really can’t.
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I’m so sorry, Arianne. Your family is in my prayers.
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He makes all things beautiful in His time. A promise you can cling to!
May the Ultimate Comfortor be with you and your family during this difficult season.
I too, have experienced a loss and my heart breaks for your pain.
{prayers}
Jenn
Jenn @ Beautiful Calling´s last blog ..Bookin’ It 2010: My Reading Goals for the Year
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I am so very sorry for your loss.
Kristin´s last blog ..Resolved
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Oh Arianne. I’m so, so very sorry. Thinking of you, wishing you comfort.
Julie @ The Mom Slant´s last blog ..Words I’d rather not say
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oh, arianne. so sorry. i will be praying for you.
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Sending you love and healing.
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Arianne, I’m so very sorry for the loss of your precious baby. You and your family will be in my prayers. Much peace and love…
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Oh no, I’m so sorry. Wishing you all a pile of strength and support. Big hugs
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I am so, so sorry. I know how difficult an life-altering this experience can be. Thoughts are with both of you.
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I’m so sorry to hear about this. This is a pain and loss that no mother should ever have to go through. Praying that God will comfort you and wrap you in his arms through this painful time.
Tishia Lee´s last blog ..21 Things to Remember This New Year
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Ari- I am so sorry! I wish I could give you a huge hug! Please know that we have you in our thoughts and prayers!
Monica- MommyBrain´s last blog ..#mamavation Monday- New Year Edition
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I am so so sorry for you loss. I pray Gods comfort surrounds you. I pray for the healing only He can provide. We lost a baby at 19 wks gestation in 08 and I know there are no real words that can comfort but to know that many care and are praying for you, you arent alone… if I can help in any way let me know. mcmeadfamily@gmail.com. My prayers and condolences are with you
love Mary
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Arianne – I have no words, just many hugs and prayers and hope for peace when your heart is ready. I am so sorry.
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Arianne, I am so sorry. My heart is broken for you. You are a one of a kind soul and I’ve loved from the moment I met you. I’m just so, so sorry. I want to be there for you and to hug you and love on you.
Heather´s last blog ..Rather Than a Pregnancy Update….
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Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
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I am so truly sorry about your terrible loss. I will be keeping you in prayer.
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I am so, so sorry for your loss.
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I am so very sorry, you are in my prayers.
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I lost a baby this past summer at 16 weeks. I am so, so, so sorry as I know this pain all too well. I will be praying for you in coming weeks.
Melissa´s last blog ..Need Guest Bloggers and Introducing Blog Carnivals
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I am so sorry for your loss. I pray God will bring you comfort in this most difficult time.
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Oh, Ari… I wish I could give you a hug right now girl. So sorry, lady.
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I am so very sorry, from the bottom of my broken heart. I have been there. I lost a baby at almost 5 months as well. Your baby was real and we all grieve with you. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am so very sorry. You are in my thoughts.
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I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby. Praying for you.
Toni
The Happy Housewife´s last blog ..The Cost of Clutter
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so sorry, A! much love and prayers and strength to you as you grieve. I know this is not your typical verse in a time like this, but I’m compelled to share: Phil. 4:13.
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Oh girl, my heart aches for you. I am so, SO sorry.
Sending *so much* love your way.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you all. My sister lost my niece at 22 weeks and I had 2 1st Trimester miscarriages so my heart breaks for you. Love and hugs. Rose
PS http://www.silentgrief.com helped has helped many through this time of grief
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I am so sorry. I lost a baby and can sympathize. Sending love your way.
Kristina´s last blog ..Playgrounds that let the imagination run wild
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I don’t know you – I’ve never even visited this blog before – but when I saw this post, I had to stop and lift you in prayer. I mourn with you, and will continue to pray for all of you. There are no words, just love and grief.
-Louise
Louise´s last blog ..Break Time
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I am so sorry for your loss. So very, very sorry.
I lost two daughters in the first trimester and one in the second. They are my son’s very special angels.
I wish nothing but love and peace for you and our family in the days, weeks and years to come.
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I am so very, very sorry for your loss. My heart is with you and your family.
I wish there was something I could say to help. Just know that we’re here for you!
*hugs*
sam {temptingmama}´s last blog ..Junk
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It is with a heavy, heartsick spirit I say that my family is holding you in prayer, Arianne. We’re praying peace for you… and also specifically for Jacob, as his father-heart is hurting too and may often be overlooked. With love…
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My thoughts are with you and your family.
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My dear friend, I am so sorry. My heart aches for you and your family.
Melanie Nelson´s last blog ..Blogging & Taxes: What You Need to Know
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I know that there are really no words that anyone can share with you at this time that will be able to cheer you or help you to forget how truly heartbroken you must feel at this time – especially a stranger like me. But, being cheerful and forgetting your heartbroken-ness aren’t really what you need or even want right now anyway.
You are in my prayers and also in my thoughts. I have not ever had to go through what you are going through at this time, but having been pregnant a few times in my life, I am very aware of how severely crushed and broken and lost I would feel if I were to have lost one of my sweet babies before I was ever even able to give them their first kiss. I am sure that the only peace I could find would be from God in heaven, and I hope that I would, in fact, turn to him for that peace in such a trying time.
My heart is so sad for you. You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Praying for you and your family as you go through this hard time. May you feel loved and cared for.
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Hi Arianne, I’m not a regular reader, but followed a couple Tweets and ended up here. It’s no accident that I clicked through those.
My heart breaks with you and for you. We lost a child at 39 weeks, so I will be praying specifically for all the hardships coming in the next hours and days. This is one of the hardest things you will ever do. Praying for God to give you strength and help.
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I am so sorry, Arianne. My heart is breaking for you — you and Jacob are in my prayers.
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Ari, your family has my prayers tonight.
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my heart is breaking for you. praying and sending God’s peace to you and your family.
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When grief is deepest…
words are fewest.
Can I just hold you and we cry together?
((((((((((((((((((((((((A))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Know I pray, and I won’t stop praying.
Jesus cups you close.
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I don’t know what else I can say that I haven’t already said except that I wish I were beside you right now, giving you ice water and making you eat REAL cheese and organic bread. And hugs, I’d give you enormous, powerful, meaningful hugs.
But we have this stupid distance between us but I hope you know that the distance is just that, MILES, it doesn’t stop the love that I have for you, oozing out of my pores and I’m sending it to you. Every last drop of it.
And your baby? Is not alone. And your baby? IS SO LOVED.
As are you.
Beth at Folding Laundry´s last blog ..A better plan.
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Of course their are no words, dear Arianne. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Oh, I am so sorry. Praying for you in your time of loss.
Carrie´s last blog ..Mom to Two
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Arianne-I know there is such sadness in your heart right now and nothing can make it go away. However, I wish I could take it all away. You, your family and your baby are in my prayers
Jennifer (Savor)´s last blog ..Eating Well Wednesday – Onion Rings (Tip # 6)
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Oh no! I’m so sooooo sorry honey! My heart, thoughts and prayers are with you and your darling family right now.
Lisa @ Crazy Adventures in Parenting´s last blog ..Kid Contortionist Sleeping
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Ariane – I just stumbled on this heartbreaking news and I am full of sadness for you. I can’t believe it. This week has been full of tragedy for my friends. Sending you a giant hug from PA. There are no words for the loss of a child. xoxo love colleen
ClassyMommy´s last blog ..Remembering Solon & Liam Bailey
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Arianne,
I am so sorry for your loss. I’ll be praying for you and your families comfort during this difficult time.
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I am so sorry Arianne! I am sorry for the loss you are feeling, the pain you are feeling. Know that we are all thinking of you, and loving you through prayers and thoughts.
Many hugs
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Ari – I wish I was there to give you a great big hug. My heart hurts for you. I am so very sorry – if I could take even one ounce of your pain, I would.
Thinking of you – loving you – praying for you.
ExtraordinaryMommy´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday – My husband lost a bet
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I am hurting so bad for you right now…
Words, tears, can’t express it. I’m praying for you and your family.
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So so sorry, Arianne. I have tears for you and I’m praying for your heart right now.
Real Life Sarah´s last blog ..Help, We’re Snowed In!
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I am so sorry.
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I just wish I could fix it. I’m so sorry.
Praying peace, somehow, sometime to you and yours….
Heather of the EO´s last blog ..Have you met the cupcakes?
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I’m so sorry. The furthest along I was when receiving that kind of sad news was 10 weeks, but I know a little of your pain. Will pray for you and your family. Hugs.
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I am so sorry! You have my love and prayers!
Hannah B.´s last blog ..Challenging Femininity – My Contribution
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i am so sorry for you lose, it is the hardest thing I ever went through and know that you will have rough days but the sun will shine again. just know that I found love and support from many who went through this on the internet and it gave me comfort in knowing i had friends who understand and care.
love and prayers
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I do not know you, yet my heart aches for you! Somebody I know just lost a baby at 20 weeks. It is so difficult to wrap our brains around it. I will keep you and your family steadfast in my prayers. I will be posting resources soon for this most difficult situation…for parents and for expectant siblings…as I know many experience it. The loss of a child is a universal loss. Godspeed.
Wendy Young, Child & Family Therapist
Founder, Kidlutions….
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I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
NYCityMama´s last blog ..Blog Thief Defeated By Twitter Army
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I know they are just words, but I am truly so so so sorry. My heart hurts for you.
Trenches of Mommyhood´s last blog ..When? 2010!
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I am soooooo sorry sweetie…I will be lifting you up!!!
Muthering Heights´s last blog ..The World Is His Exersaucer
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I’m so sorry to hear about your loss.
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
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Awww. So sorry to hear that. I saw a couple of tweets and came to see what sadness befell a sister-of-a-sister in the blogosphere. I just said a prayer for you.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find some peace during this horrible time from all the love coming your way.
Heather@MamaSass´s last blog ..Revolution.
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My heart is broken tonight. I wish I could wrap all this sadness in a little sailboat and blow it away… far away. But one thing I know about little angels is that they stay… they watch… they grasp the great pain… they hug like nothing on earth. I pray for you… all of you… at this most sad, sad, sad time. I love you…
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Brokenhearted and in tears for you… we are here for you friend — just let us know what we can do for you. -Christine
Boston Mamas´s last blog ..Oooh…Raclette!
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I’m so sorry.
My thoughts are with you right now. Much love.
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I send strength … strength to make it through the moment, hour and day; strength to continue to love and strength to continue on. Your family is in my thoughts.
Amy @ Six Flower Mom´s last blog ..Wordful/Wordless Wednesday – The Supers!
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I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve been there & it’s a terrible alone pain but you will get through. The verse, Jeremiah 29:11, really helped me. Also, I wish I would have had this song. Please listen to ‘Your Hands’ by JJ Heller. I think it will bring you comfort. Praying for you.
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I’m so sorry. My heart and prayers are with you Arianne.
Jennifer Taggart, TheSmartMama´s last blog ..Understanding the CPSC’s new CPSIA Interim Enforcement Policy – Step 2: Does it have a coating?
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I’m so terribly sorry for you and your family. I wish you the best.
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I’m so, so sorry for your loss.
So sorry.
WhyMommy´s last blog ..Toddler Universe
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I’m so very, very sorry.
Velma´s last blog ..5 Random Thoughts In No Particular Order.
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Arianne, I can’t imagine how much you are hurting today, but you and your sweet baby will be in our prayers.
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My heart hurts for you and your family today…just not fair. We send you all love and blessings.
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I am so sorry. Words can’t express the pain I feel for you. I lost two babies in the same year and it was awful. I will pray for you and your family.
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I am just sick for you. I am so sorry.
Vanderbilt Wife´s last blog ..Things I Love Thursday: Baby Clothes
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I’m so sorry! Words aren’t enough, but hope you can find some peace and hope and be surrounded by friends and loved ones at this time!
punkinmama´s last blog ..ch-ch-ch-changes
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I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Sending lots of hugs your way.
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I am so sorry for your loss. Some things just don’t make sense and aren’t fair….and are without answers. Prayers for the peace that passes all understanding for you.
Sandy ´s last blog ..How To Start Organizing
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No words can adequately express my sorrow for you and your family. Big hugs.
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I’m so sorry. Praying for you and your family.
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So sorry. So very sorry.
My prayers and tears are with you. Prayers as you journey. Your little one is loved and remembered.
Mourning with you and praying for you. With a heavy heart.
kathy´s last blog ..Behold…
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My thoughts and prayers are with you. ♥
Lindsey@Kindred Spirit Mommy´s last blog ..Emma’s Lovely Hand-Knit Scarf (WW)
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Sweetie…my heart aches for you so badly…there are no words to describe what has happened. I am so very sorry….you and your family are in my prayers…
Caryn B´s last blog ..Eco-Friendly Valentine’s Gifts from Alex and Ani *Giveaway*
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Ari,
I am so sorry for your loss you are in our prayers!
Consumer Queen´s last blog ..Deals of the Week
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So very, very sorry. Take care.
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I’m so sorry to hear that Arianne. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Felicia @ LB&TT´s last blog ..Future BlackBerry User
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Ari,
I’m so sorry that you and your family are dealing with this sad, sad loss. There are no words. I’m thinking of you, and love you- you are dear to so many hearts, and such a thoughtful soul. I’m crying with you, sweet girl.
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There are no words to express my extreme sorrow for you. Thoughts and prayers are being lifted up for you and your family.
Megan´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday
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I am so deeply sorry and pray that you heal fast over this tragedy. We are rooting for you and know you have the strength to go on.
Hugs
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my heart is aching for you and jacob and the boys. i’m so sorry for your loss.
i’m praying for peace for you and for your baby.
xoxo
i’m always here for you.
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Words cannot convey my sadness about this news. I will keep you and your family lifted up in prayer. My heart aches for you.
Renee´s last blog ..Operation Weight Loss Week 6 – The incredible shrinking woman
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Loving on you right now…. and praying for you to feel the love, warmth, and support that overflows you like warm honey…..
God has mighty plans for you and your family.
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I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. Your heart must be broken. I will keep you in my prayers.
Cindy´s last blog ..Day 2 DONE
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My heart hurts for you. Although I have never lost a baby, I simply can’t imagine going for an ultrasound and being told such horrible, life-changing news. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family at this time. May you feel an even greater portion of God’s spirit with you.
Angela´s last blog ..Yahoo!!!!!!
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Praying for you and your family…I am so, so sorry.
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Heartache.
Arianne, like you I suffered the same loss of my 4th in July, being just a few weeks along.
I shared the beautiful piece you wrote on my blog at that time, because it helped me so much.
Also like you, I recently became pregnant again. I’m now 9 weeks and so cautiously optimistic.
I am just so sad for you and your family. I can’t imagine going through that again, especially at 18 weeks.
Sending prayers and hugs your way.
Many, many blessings,
Heather
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I’m so sorry. Sending all the good thoughts I can your direction.
Jennifer McNichols´s last blog ..Eco-Kids USA’s play dough makes us willing to pay for stuff you can make for free
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Arianne,
I can’t even imagine what you’re going through, but I’m praying for and thinking of you and your family. Whatever else you might be, you are loved.
Cranky-faced knitter´s last blog ..Make with the knitting content!
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I love you so much, Arianne. I wish there was something I could do. Something more than just telling you that my thoughts and prayers are with your family. I know you know I went through a similar issue, although I was only 12 weeks along when we found out. I’m here for you you if you want to talk about it or if you want someone to distract you and not talk about it. So many of us have been through this and are here for you. I’m just so sorry we can’t take part of that pain away and carry it for you.
Sending you love and light and whatever you need.
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My heart is breaking for you. I am so very sorry.
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So, so sorry.
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Sending prayers & hugs & anything else I can to let you know how much you’re loved. May God bless you & your precious angel baby.
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There just isn’t any reason…any rhyme-apparent for such sadness and loss.
My heart is there with you and wraps you up in any reserves of strength I have to help carry you over until you are strong enough to walk on your own.
I love you.
I love your little one.
God has His Hands covering you both.
(tell me if you need A THING–and I will make it happen)
Sara Sophia´s last blog ..no matter how wide I open my handsthey can’t hold the hurt
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I am SO very sorry for your loss. I, along with way too many others, have sadly experienced this. No words can take away the shock that you’re experiencing and the pain. I hope you feel loved though as so many have you and your family in their thoughts and on their hearts. All I can say is…cry out to Him, lean into Him, yell and scream at Him if you need to. He can take it…just don’t stop seeking Him during these trying times. Praying, praying, praying for you tonight.
Amy F.´s last blog ..Merry Christmas 2009!
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Arianne, I can’t begin to imagine what you are feeling, but know that my thoughts, prayers and love are with you. My heart broke when I read this, so much that I really can’t bring words to explain it. You and your little angel are loved, and we’re all here to give you whatever support you need.
Jennae´s last blog ..Get Organized in Style: Bergen Closet Collection from West Elm
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I am so sorry! All I know to say is I know this pain. I lost my toddler’s twin at 20 weeks.
I will be lifting all of you in prayer!
Jen
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So very sorry for your loss.
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Arianne and Jacob – My heart goes out to the two of you. Many prayers for you.
Nicole (SAHM Reviews)´s last blog ..How NOT to Freeze in Iowa
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I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for you during this difficult time.
Llama Momma´s last blog ..the REAL plane
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I will be praying for your family. I don’t know the pain you’re in, but I know that my Father will be there for you all. He’ll take care of your sweet babe until you can be reunited. Many hugs and prayers.
Came over from Muthering Heights.
Randi´s last blog ..Workout Wednesday
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I’m so very, very sorry for your loss Arianne. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. XOXOXOX
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I am sooo sorry to hear of your loss. I myself had a miscarriage less than 5 weeks ago, it sucks. I wish you lots of peace and support from those around you. Grieve however you need to and for as long as you need to, cry, spit, throw things…whatever helps.
You’re in my prayers!
Natalie´s last blog ..I’m such a girl!
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I am so sorry to read about your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you guys {hugs}!
Crystal @ Simply Being Mommy´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday
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I am truly saddened for you and your family Arianne. You are in our families prayers. We have experienced a similar loss and really you have been thought about all day…
Many hugs and peace,
Heidi
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One more set of arms reaching out and holding you tight tonight. I am so sorry.
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Oh Arianne — my heart is broken for you! I am so beyond sorry!!! Praying for God to wrap his arms around you and comfort all of you. {{{HUGS}}}
Janice (5 Minutes for Mom)´s last blog ..Leap Year movie with Matthew Goode
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praying for you! my heart aches for your loss! may you find peace in this time!
Amanda´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday: Feelin’ Feminine
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Praying for you and your family.
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I just want to say I’m so sorry. I remember being sad and mad and nothing anybody said made it better. So, just know that there are many many people thinking of you.
fiona´s last blog ..The World’s Most Expensive Christmas Card
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Arianne, i’m so sorry for your loss. along with everyone else, i’m sending loving thoughts and prayers to help you through this painful time. laurie
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Praying for you and your husband and family tonight. I know the pain you are feeling. I went through a similar thing 20 years ago. It will take a lot of time to get past it. But you will never forget. May God shelter you in his loving arms as you go through the next few heartbreaking days.
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My love……..I’m sending it to you across the miles.
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I just wanted to let you know that I’m thinking and praying for you and your family.
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Praying for strength…will….and healing.
Melissa´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday…
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Oh Arianne, I am just so desperately sorry… I can’t find any words. I will pray and keep on praying that the Lord will somehow give you peace beyond all understanding… because I know that this loss is beyond all understanding.
My heart is breaking for you. I wish so badly that this weren’t true.
Please know that we all love you and are here for you in any way we can help.
I am so, so sorry.
Susan (5 Minutes for Mom)´s last blog ..Leap Year movie with Matthew Goode
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I don’t know you, but I am soo sorry to hear about your loss.
Sending many hugs from New York.
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I will pray for strength, comfort, and peace for you and your family. I am so sorry.
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Oh Arianne… My heart is with you. It has been 20 years and still, I remember the aching loss.
I will not say that it will get better. I will say that you will come to a peace in your heart at some point that even so will never quite make that hole go away.
Still, you are in my thoughts and prayers today.
I am so so so very sorry my friend.
Much love to you and your family.
Lucretia Pruitt´s last blog ..Just Breathe.
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I am so very sorry. Much love to you.
Zakary´s last blog ..Raise Your Hand If You Want To Be Friends With Me
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Praying your sweet family feels the strength of God’s love around you as he welcomes your precious angel.
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My heart has been ripped out of my body over this. I am so very sorry. I will pray for you. I will pray today, tomorrow and well into the future for you and your family.
You have an army of friends here for you. We love you lots.
~emily
DesignherMomma´s last blog ..Out with the Old, In with the New
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Aww Sweetie – I’m so sorry! Remember that God has a plan for you and He will bring you through your trials and tribulations victorious! I’m sending you my prayers and love, as well as the tears that I share for your loss. {HUGS}
Angie´s last blog ..52 to Fabulous – week 1: What a girl wants
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I found your site through I Should Be Folding Laundry. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I will be praying for you and your family.
Sarah
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Found your site through I Should Be Folding Laundry as well. I’m so sorry about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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So sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your hubby.
Karen´s last blog ..Fake medical advice red flags!
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Praying for you. So sorry. You and your family is so loved.
-Abra
Abrra´s last blog ..So far. So good.
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i am so, so damn sorry to hear of your loss. it isn’t fair and completely heartbreaking. know that if you ever need someone to talk to about loss, i’m here for you having lost my son just a few months ago. these next few days will be the toughest, and i’m so sorry that you and your family have to go through it. you all are in my thoughts.
Julie´s last blog ..Vote Now!
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Found your site through I should Be Folding Laundry….My thoughts are with you and your family.
Stephanie @ Geezees´s last blog ..This Year I Plan to …… listen to more music
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I am so sad to hear that. I don’t know her – and it’s my first visit here – but I can only imagine the pain. God bless her and her family, and you, for having the strength to endure such a loss.
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Lots and lots of prayers for you and your family right and in the future.
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Damn it, Arianne. I just heard. Sweet baby, I’m thinking of you. Love you with all that I have.
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Just sending along prayers for healing and peace…
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so so so very sorry. you have my heart.
tara´s last blog ..clutches for a bygone day :: urth bags madison
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We have never met, but I just wanted to express my sympathy and condolences. My heart breaks for you.
Love and prayers for you,
Mary Bernard
Mary @ The Writer’s Block´s last blog ..Intentional Eating in 2010
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You know I’m with you hugging and loving on you…will be saying my own little prayers for all of you and your sweet baby.
Love.
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having been in similar shoes … i know that sorry does little to ease the pain that you are now feeling …
but there are so few other words that make sense at a time like this.
sending you peace …
jen´s last blog ..another reason why i love my husband …
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I don’t know you and I don’t normally read your blog so I was not going to comment, but something Beth said on her blog struck me. She was talking about how her world stopped and it was so strange to her that the rest of the world went on. I have not gone through what you are going through, but I want you to know that ever since Beth linked to your post and I read it you have been in my thoughts and prayers. I can’t imagine. I am sorry you have to. Last night as I was getting ready for bed I was thinking about you. I went to bed thinking about and praying for you. From what Beth said I thought that might help you to know that a complete stranger’s focus last night was on you and your family. I wanted to make sure you knew, in case it helps. Even for a moment.
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my heart is breaking for you. you are in my thoughts and prayers. i know nothing that i can say can help you or take any of your pain away. just know i am thinking about you…..
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Words are not enough but know that my heart is shattered for you today. Sending love and prayers and hugs to you today.
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I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter shortly after birth, and I would never wish this pain on anyone. Thinking of you.
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Much love to you, Arianne. You are in my prayers.
boomama´s last blog ..Linky Interwebby Awesomeness 01.06.09
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Another stranger from a passing tweet. Wondering what I could even say to help a fraction, if everyone else has said it already, if you have “enough” comments. But I realized you could never have too much love and support right now, so from my tiny corner I am letting you know I am sending much love to your family.
Heather´s last blog ..Dear 1999
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When I lost my Olivia Hope at 17 weeks last May I prayed and prayed that I would never know anyone that had to go through this. It was the most awful experience of my life. I know I don’t “know” you in the friendship short of way, it still breaks my heart that a friend in the blogging community joins this club that none of us asked to join.
I am sure you are still just reeling from the news and trying to comprehend how this could happen.
Just know that so many people are wrapping their arms around you in thoughts and prayers and to know that you are not alone in this tragedy.
Love to you and your family.
Tina
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So sorry for your loss. I’ll say a prayer for you and your sweet baby.
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There aren’t even words to express the sadness I feel for you and your family. God bless you as you survive this.
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Your boys will pull you through this……I promise. Every time you feel sad or weak, just remember how much they need their mama strong. Love & prayers to you & your family.
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I cannot imagine and am so so sorry. Prayers are with you and your family.
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Arianne, I’m so sorry for your loss. I am holding you in prayer.
Cxx
Claire´s last blog .."Be better"
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im here by way of erin (school teacher by day)…..
and im so so so sorry about your loss.
hugs & prayers for you.
crazyassmomma´s last blog ..What I Meant to Say Wednesday
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I pray that you feel the presence of God with you inside this terrible grief. I’m so, so sorry.
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I am so so sorry Arianne. I am heartbroken for you. Sending you love and hugs.
Elisa´s last blog ..Outfit of the week, dirty laundry and a SATC reference
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Just want you to know I’m thinking about you. We were 11 weeks pg when we found our baby had passed around 8 1/2 weeks. This happened right before Christmas. I just want you to know I’m thinking about you, and want you to know you’re in our prayers. HUGS! Amanda
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*hug*
I know there’s nothing anyone can say. There’s nothing to say to make it better.
*hug*
Sarah´s last blog ..From a friend
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I am so sorry for your loss.
Liz@thisfullhouse´s last blog ..TLC Book Tour: The Body Scoop for Girls (Pssst, It Ain’t All Pretty)
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My little girl, that I lost at the same time, is in heaven. That sustains me! My boys know they have a little sister in heaven – she’s not lost – she’s waiting – with Jesus, my grandmother and my grandfather!
I pray that you have peaceful sleep, restful dreams. It’s tough when our babies are not here with us, but waiting – that hope replaced my mourning with joy!
maryleigh´s last blog ..How Good is Santa?
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I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs and healing prayers. I’ve been where you are and I feel your pain. This child will always be part of your heart.
threeundertwo´s last blog ..Wordful Wednesday
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Oh Arianne…Im so so sorry to hear about your little one. Please know you have been and will be prayed for.
Nicole´s last blog ..My 10 In ‘10
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Praying for peace and comfort.
Kimberly @ Raising Olives´s last blog ..Do You Have Your Child’s Heart? Part 2
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I know, too, how hard this is. I lost an infant son due to SIDS, and had two miscarriages after that. It is so hard. So devestating. So senseless.
But over time, I also know that love conquers. It helps you weather the worst of times and picks you up so you can again enjoy the sunny days. And there will be sunny days.
God be with you, and may you have the comfort, love, and support of those you need the most right now and in the future.
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I’m another stranger from a passing tweet, but I want to tell you that you and your family are in my prayers as well. I’m so very sorry for your loss.
Mary´s last blog ..Tuesday Tips – Do what you’re putting off FIRST
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I am so sorry!! My heart goes out to both of you. I have lost 3 babies. I know that is a roller coaster ride.
Huge (((HUGS))) and prayers coming your way.
Kris
Kris Cain´s last blog ..$5 Personalized iPhone & Blackberry Cases
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I’m so very, very, very sorry! *HUGS*
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I’m so sorry.
Many hugs to you and your family
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Oh Ari, I’m sorry. I love you and will be praying for you.
Petit Elefant´s last blog ..organizing drawers.
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Oh I am so so sorry. There are way to many of us who know this pain all too well. I am praying for you.
Donna@WayMoreHomemade´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday – Shhhhh… don’t tell….
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Praying for you right now as I type these words…
Holley Gerth´s last blog ..The Rest of Your Story 3: Familiar Words
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Here from Erin’s blog– My prayers are with you during this difficult time!
Esther´s last blog ..All about Epiphany
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I can’t cannot express the sorrow that I feel for you. May you feel the love that you so need. Prayers.
Anti-Supermom´s last blog ..orange with envy
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I hate that this happened. I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I could say something to make it better, but know I am thinking of you and your family.
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I am so very sorry! My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dee´s last blog ..Mrs Smith’s Diaper Bag Review And Giveaway TWO WINNERS
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There are no words that anybody can say that will take away the hurt, the misery that you are feeling right now. In 2006 I went in for my scheduled appointment to find that my little girl, Mya, was no longer with us. I was 18 weeks, 4 days, and September 5, 2006 has forever changed my life. I want you to know that I know you don’t know me all that well (I’m @anjyldream) but I am here.
I can’t tell words to try to comfort you, because I know that there are no words. The one thing I can share with you is a letter that I sent to everyone in my family and all of my friends. This letter let them know how I felt.
Dear Friend,
Please be patient with me; I need to grieve in my own way and in my own time.
Please don’t take away my grief or try to fix my pain. The best thing you can do is listen to me and let me cry on your shoulder. Don’t be afraid to cry with me. Your tears will tell me how much you care.
Please forgive me if I seem insensitive to your problems. I feel depleted and drained, like an empty vessel, with nothing left to give.
Please let me express my feelings and talk about my memories. Feel free to share your own stories of my loved one with me. I need to hear them.
Please understand why I must turn a deaf ear to criticism or tired clichés. I can’t handle another person telling me that time heals all wounds.
Please don’t try to find the “right” words to say to me. There’s nothing you can say to take away the hurt. What I need are hugs, not words.
Please don’t push me to do things I’m not ready to do, or feel hurt if I seem withdrawn. This is a necessary part of my recovery.
Please don’t stop calling me. You might think you’re respecting my privacy, but to me it feels like abandonment. Please don’t expect me to be the same as I was before. I’ve been through a traumatic experience and I’m a different person.
Please accept me for who I am today. Pray with me and for me. Should I falter in my own faith, let me lean on yours. In return for your loving support I promise that, after I’ve worked through my grief, I will be a more loving, caring, sensitive, and compassionate friend-becauseI have learned from the best.
Love,
(Your name)
You have amazing support as shown through your comments, just know that I am thinking of you. I am keeping you in my prayers for healing and peace.
~Amanda aka @anjyldream
You can read all about Mya and poems and quotes regarding this by clicking on the Mya tag on my blog.
Amanda (Garibay Soup)´s last blog ..Worked for YOU Wednesday…. Morning Sickness
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I saw this link from rockinmama…
I am so sorry to hear about this. I have lost two babies. Certainly doesn’t make it any easier when it’s happened before. Know that in time your wounds would heal, and that none of this happened because of something that you did. Hard words to hear, but it is the truth.
You may want to check out some books. I’m a reader when something is going on with me. I gave these books to my friend after my last miscarriage when she had one of her own, and she said that they were invaluable.
http://www.amazon.com/Never-Held-You-miscarriage-recovery/dp/1932014209/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1262908173&sr=1-3
http://www.amazon.com/Avoiding-Miscarriage-Everything-Confident-Pregnancy/dp/0977493318/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1262908173&sr=1-2
http://www.amazon.com/Trying-Again-Pregnancy-Miscarriage-Stillbirth/dp/0878331824/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1262908173&sr=1-5
http://www.amazon.com/Surviving-Miscarriage-You-Are-Alone/dp/0595356362/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1262908173&sr=1-6
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My son and his GF just lost their baby at 8 weeks. It is the saddest of times but God will get us all through.
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I am so so sorry for your loss. Peace and love with you and your family.
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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We don’t know each other, but I wanted to tell you that I am praying for your family. We’ve been there, only much earlier (twice) and I just wanted you to know I’m praying along side all of the other people.
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I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you. You are in my prayers.
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Arianne, I am so sorry to learn of your loss.
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You and your family are thought of with much love and prayer through these trying times. I hope you feel the comfort of the love and support that is being poured out to you.
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(((((HUGS))))))) and prayers from Minnesota.
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Arianne, I am so sorry. I hope you and your family find comfort and strength in each other.
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Arianne and Jacob, you don’t know me, I just read your blog…..I am deeply sorry for your loss….and I am sending many prayers your way. Please stay strong and know that many of us out here are feeling your pain and anguish. This has happened to me, 23 years ago. And it is as if it just happened. But time and each other will help heal.
We who follow your blog love you and think of you………May God keep his arms around you……………….respectfully…………………chris……………..there is an extra angel in Heaven tonight…………………………..
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Sending a long hug and lots of prayers from the west coast. Please email if you need anything.
It’s a New Year! 
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“know” you from clicking on these heartstrings
and praying for you and your family.
Peace be with you…
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Sending hugs to you! The LORD is close to the brokenhearted; he rescues those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18 (NLT)
“Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each day.”
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Oh I am so sad and so sorry to hear the news. My family is praying for you and sending you hugs. If you ever need to vent and talk feel free to email me; I’ll only respond if you ask. I’m thinking of you.
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oh no. i just am so sad. sending love and more love.
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I’m so very sorry, Arianne.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love and hugs.
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Thinking of you and yours. Sending up prayers.
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Thinking of you and your family today! Sending prayers up to God.
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I know all too well the pain of losing a baby. I had a little baby boy on October 22, 2009. We named him Lukas Ethan and he was so very much wanted and loved. We struggled for over 3 1/2 years to get pregnant and were so thrilled to find out that not only were we due in April (both our birthdays are in April) but I was due on my birthday. There was a placental tear and blood clot and I was taken to a high risk ob unit where Luke was born.
I will be in prayer for this family, I am so very sorry this happened to another family.
http://miracleaftertherain.blogspot.com
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hugs and please be kind to yourselves
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I’m so, so incredibly sorry for your loss….I don’t know what else to say other than that your family is in my prayers.
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Prayed for your family last night.
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I read the blogs of some of your friends. They are working so hard to rally the troops to support you. My prayers are with you & your family. I’m sorry this is the path you have to walk.
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I am so, so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
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All of my love and prayers are with you and your family.
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I’m so very sorry for the loss of your sweet baby, Arianne. Please know my family and I will be lifting you and your family up in prayer.
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I don’t know what to say. I’m crying for you.
Sending sympathy.
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I’m SO sorry for your loss! Praying for you and your family. {{{hugs}}}
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Your loss is unimaginable. Please know that we all love and care for you. We’re here for whatever you need.
You are loved.
Connie
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. I am so very sorry for your loss.
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I keep coming here and praying and closing the box without a comment. I know there isn’t anything I can say or do that will fix things, but I CAN pray. And I will continue to pray. You’re in my heart; I am so horribly sorry.
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Arianne, I just wanted to let you know I was one of the many who had you in my prayers last night – and for as long as you need it. Be okay in your own time. xoxo
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My heart goes out to you.
Long ago I went into premature labor with my first little one at 6 1/2 months along. He lived less than thirty minutes.
Although I went on to have a daughter the next year and another boy TWELVE years later (that was a surprise), our Matthew will always be a part of our family.
I always told everyone Heaven seemed even closer because one of my children was waiting for me there.
The hurt is overwhelming and long lasting but someday you will smile again. In the meantime, embrace the grief.
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Baby, get stronger and you?love you.
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I am so, so very sorry.
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