Comments on: A Hot Mess In Headlights

By: Allie

Allie — Mon, 26 May 2008 03:35:40 +0000

Wow. You know, I envy that you could put that all into words. I try to express myself like that and I get called depressed – and I am not. I mean, it does depress me but I am naturally drawn to people and events like that. I want to help, I want to soothe, and I want to comfort. Those stories are incredible and have touch my heart. Wow. Now I must go and wipe my tears and say a few more prayer while I cry for them. My heart goes out to to everyone of them and you too.

By: PlanningQueen

PlanningQueen — Sat, 17 May 2008 12:10:53 +0000

As I read blogs like that, I shed tears and am reminded to be very grateful for what I have and to take the time to appreciate it. My life is very simple compared to others and I should not take that for granted.

By: Beth at I Should Be Folding Laundry

Beth at I Should Be Folding Laundry — Sat, 17 May 2008 02:04:12 +0000

I read this and I am torn. I am sad that you feel sad, but I don’t want you to stop reading my blog.

And I feel selfish for saying this, but don’t stop. Okay?

I love that you were able to express what you are feeling on your blog – it makes a big difference doesn’t it?. Just remember that you are loved by many. Including me.

By: Audrey

Audrey — Thu, 15 May 2008 18:55:41 +0000

I’m thinking about you girl!! And definitely use blogging for what it’s for… being honest and open. I think it is very special and wonderful how compassionate you are. I feel so happy that I have gotten to know you through this thing called BLOG WORLD!! :)
xoxo,
Audrey

By: BlondeBlogger

BlondeBlogger — Thu, 15 May 2008 04:16:44 +0000

That’s what blogging is for…getting it all out. I hope it made you feel better. And remember that no matter how awful we may feelone day, there are better days ahead….we just have to hang in there for them. (((((HUGS))))

By: Naomi

Naomi — Thu, 15 May 2008 03:14:37 +0000

i feel very much the same… took roo to playgroup today and heard of two homicides that affected us, peripherally. so much loss and sadness. all we can do is try to focus on the positive.

like free shoes. no matter how insipid that sounds!

By: milk&honey

milk&honey — Thu, 15 May 2008 02:26:49 +0000

We are so much alike. I do the same thing… and then I’m so affected by the sadness that I can hardly handle it.

We may be a mess, but at least we’re hot, right? RIGHT?

By: Adventures In Babywearing

Adventures In Babywearing — Thu, 15 May 2008 02:19:20 +0000

I still can’t get over thinking a hot mess is hot.

And let it out. Just let it out. And stop reading those sad stories, if you can. I cried enough today over them for everyone.

Steph

By: April

April — Thu, 15 May 2008 01:47:05 +0000

Do you get like that when you’re in the presence of someone who is sad or depressed or stressed out? Try looking up information about a book called “The Highly Sensitive Person”.

I hate to admit it but I avoid those stories. I catch bits and pieces when other people mention it but I don’t seek it out or read/watch for details. Its just too much. I just bury my head in the sand if there’s nothing I can do about it.

By: Becoming Me

Becoming Me — Thu, 15 May 2008 00:04:04 +0000

There is so much sadness in this world and easy to get bogged down by it all. I try to overcome the feelings of depression by praising God for all His goodness even through the ugliness and by asking Him how He wants me to respond. If the feelings are debilitating, than that can do more harm than good. Blessing to you. You are sweet hearted and precious